Each week, our life groups meet in homes across London, from Blackheath to Battersea, from Kensington to Kennington. We share a meal, study scripture, and pray together. It's simple gospel-centred hospitality in a big and busy city.
Our newest life group has just launched in Pimlico. We spoke to its leaders, Graham and Lucy, who tell us more.
Tell us about yourselves.
Hey! Graham here (don’t worry, Lucy mostly approves of what follows):
Lucy is Scottish/Brazilian (Scozilian), and as an oil-child she grew up in and out of Nigeria, Oman, UAE, Brazil, and Aberdeen. I’m from Bolton, and it doesn’t get much more exotic than that. We’ve been coming to Grace for nine years now - we just missed out on being part of the elect few in that sticky-floored pub at the beginning.
Graham and Lucy aren’t new to being life group leaders but also led a group between 2018 - 2023. What did life group look like back then?
We’ve been married for 15 years, and around 18 years ago (in Uxbridge), I was co-leading a life group that Lucy attended, which is how we got to know each other better. So, my favourite thing about life group is probably picking up a wife.
Joking aside, we’ve led life groups together on and off over the years in Uxbridge, Salisbury, and now London. We’ve loved being in various groups at Grace (shout-out to the Tans and the Van-Nierkerks), and we led a group, ‘It is Camberwell with my soul’, for a few years before we moved to Pimlico.
Our Camberwell group was lovely, but the period was not an easy one in our lives — spanning lockdowns and some work and health challenges for us. We disbanded but are coming back refreshed and excited for our new group!
What was your favourite thing about being a life group leader?
One thing I love about life group leading is real talk (when it happens). I’m not much for small talk, but the conversations at life group can get pretty interesting (spicy, even). Some members bring provoking ideas or have cultural takes that you might not have considered before.
We both love the opportunity to open the word together, to get to know people deeper, and to have friends to share life with and sharpen each other. In big cities, that's not a given, and it’s something that reflects the beauty of the church to the world.
Graham & Lucy, with friends and life group hosts Luke & Janice
What’s your vision for the group?
The key thing for me is trust. As in any big city, London makes it easy to avoid having anyone input into your life (that’s often why people come here). Anonymity can feel comfortable, for a while. But we don’t thrive like that for long.
We want to get to a point where we trust each other — we open up, bringing our genuine selves along, making real friends (not that sub-species, ‘friends from life group’).
So, I hope we reflect something of Jesus’ weird combo of being both straight-talking and yet super caring. It takes time and a lot of regular meeting to earn the trust required with each other to make that stuff happen.
How can we pray for you?
It is by no means unique to our group, but where are all the fellas at? While Luke and I do admittedly exhibit an embarrassing amount of (Christian) masculinity, we would love a few more lads to join and even things out.
As I’ve mentioned, we’d also love to get to a place where we trust one another and be open and honest in a caring manner. So please pray that the Holy Spirit works among us in this way too.
Finally, Janice keeps mentioning one past life group where she got them all to shout ‘YeeHaw’ in worship, so please pray that she forgets about that.